Masturbation; sin, pleasure or just a means to sexual balance.

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Masturbation is it a sin?!!

Is Masturbation a sin?

Research shows that about 84% of people statically ask themselves the question in their heads before, during or after Masturbating.

Before we go too far, I think we should understand the meaning of masturbation: It is the sexual stimulation of one’s genitals(penis or viagina)  for one’s sexual benefaction or other sexual pleasure, usually to the point of orgasm (when he/she cums). This stimulation may involve hands, fingers, sex toys like vibrators, lipstick, fruits, pillows or brace your self candles, was amazed when I heard that people also use candles like guys chill, lol.

Masturbation may sometimes involve two people, that’s called mutual masturbation (I know you want gist of how that is done). Some people also ask questions like is Masturbation only specific to a particular age? The answer is no, everyone even as old as your grandma to as young as a teenager can masturbate lol, even animals masturbate and you think Grandma masturbating is a bad thing.

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OK let’s move on to is Masturbation a sin? Well in the bible, tho I didn’t read everything in the bible word for word but according to research, there is no part of the bible that depicts masturbation being a sin. I also made my findings in the Qur’an, there is not an actual passage that explains, depicts or narrates that masturbation is a sin or why it is, according to some religious leader’s, they find it OK to masturbate, quoting one religious leader, he said, “I don’t see it as a sin because it helps some people reduce the need or feeling  to commit adultery”.

Yes I know point intended right? Majorly I feel that the reason why majority think its a sin, is sometimes related to patriarchy, have you noticed why sometimes they draw the attention to a female masturbating as a sin, there is a stigma that follows her when she’s been caught in the act, but when a guy is also cut in the same act it is viewed as being a man. I’ve always thought that society is patriarchal, you know, women are largely scrutinized through the male gaze, which has largely affected how the social media, churches, mosque e.t.c view female sexuality, according to Brotherton,” male masturbation has already been normalized.

Ok! OK! Enough intense talk, I heard that masturbation on your period is a thing and its nice well maybe a bit messy but dope, crazy but true, it also has so many important but that’s a story for another day.

Masturbation has so many benefits both in male for example while doing research, I found some similar benefit we derive from masturbation, 

1) Longer and Stronger Orgasm: Like I have always said there is nothing like knowing your body so you will know how to do it yourself, you know doing it yourself is a whole lot of new high, when it comes to masturbation you would know how to understand your body more, where your more sensitive and all. OK to let you on a little gist on how to derived longer and stronger sexual orgasm keep reading.

2) Fall Asleep Faster: According to some guys, when asking why they masturbate, some of them gave reasons of:

It helps to sleep faster and they feel more relaxed, so for those of us that have difficulty in sleeping at night you might want to try masturbating before bed, medically it helps in releasing some endorphins (orgasm) that will knock you right off, tested and trusted.

3) Gains Confidence: As far as I know, the key to feeling good is happiness and confidence, right? And to feel good you’ve got to Masturbate….. Medically it helps to relax your brain and release good stuff such as endorphins, dopamine, and our most loved hormone oxytocin (the Almighty Love Hormone) all these are linked to making you feel happy, sexy and keeping you more in touch with yourself thereby bringing pleasure to your body and boosting your confidence.

OK now for the main talk, the reason most of us are still reading right now.

HOW DO I MASTURBATE?

Well for guys, I’ve learnt that they masturbate either, squatting, kneeling, lying on their back, face down or standing, from what I’ve also gathered the most common technique among all guys is to hold the penis with a loose fist and then move their hands in a up-down movement against the shaft with a lubricant with watching porn, while few use their imagination of someone, like a type of trigger or something.

Some of these techniques don’t work for all dick type, you know there is the circumcised and uncircumcised dick.

 THE UNCUT (UNCIRCUMCISED)- The stimulation of the penis comes from the pumping of the foreskin, the foreskin is held and slid up and down gliding smoothly over the inner skin, the glands may contrast in length or width as the stimulation occurs, it becomes darker in colour and the gliding friction will reduce.

THE CUT (CIRCUMCISED)- Which their gland is completely uncovered, the technique would involve a lube to avoid friction, soreness or irritation well some uses spit but I find it somewhat nasty.

PROSTATE MASSAGE- Well in my own words anal masturbation, I’m sure a lot of you guys should know you have a G-spot well some of you may know it as P-spot, yup and I’m sure you know where its located if you don’t let me dash you small knowledge, your G-spot is located at the back, your anus, lol, imagine my surprise when I heard it too, just imagine how much ecstasy those gay guys derive from sex, no wonder.THE ANAL MASTURBATION TECHNIQUE- For guys this involves achieving sexual stimulation through the stimulation of the prostate gland, you could do this by using a well-lubricated finger or dildo inserted through the anus or rectum. According to research, the technique produces more intense orgasm than the other technique.OK quick tip for my ladies, if your guy has taken kolagbo and all the anti cuming fast medicine and your pussy is already smelling like burnt tyre, just lick your fingers and apply little pressure from outside on the G-spot, he will cum faster than you can say cum.lol

There are other ways of masturbation for guys both those who are the two most common types and don’t worry you are not gay if you enjoy the anal masturbation don’t start questioning your sexuality.

FOR LADIES- It usually involves stroking or rubbing of a woman’s vulva, guys don’t skip this part because it would help you learn how to satisfy your lady better. It not only involves rubbing the vulva it also involves rubbing the clitoris with an index or middle finger or sometimes both. This is the reason most women cum faster from fingering because of the fingers or should I say skilled fingers know the right spot to touch, yes we are talking about the G-spot.

Masturbation aids such as a vibrator, dildo or Ben wa balls (OK I know I’ve confused you with the Ben wa balls, in the movie, Fifty Shades of Grey freed this information called silver balls, yea the one uncle Christian grey insert inside Ann’s viagina at the ball that made her walk confidently at the same time horny, lol ).

Like males, masturbation for females may include; lying, squatting, sitting,………. Sometimes in the shower, straddling a pillow, the corner of the bed, some scrunched-up clothing, candles, anything just as long as it can help stimulate the vulva, some girls masturbate just by pressure on the clitoris, e.g by pressing a palm or ball against the underwear.

Women can stimulate themselves sexually by crossing their legs tightly and clenching the muscles in their legs, creating pressure on the genitals. This can potentially be done in public without observers noticing. Thoughts, fantasies, and memories of previous instances of arousal and orgasm can produce sexual excitation. Some women can have orgasm spontaneously by force of will alone, although this may not strictly qualify as masturbation as no physical stimulus is involved.

Some sex therapists have also recommended that female patients take time to masturbate to orgasm, for example, to help improve sexual health and relationships, to determine what is erotically pleasing to them, and because mutual masturbation can lead to more satisfying sexual relationship and added intimacy in my own words know your body 

Lastly, let me briefly talk about the mutual masturbation, which I know some of us were looking forward to, this is common between the “I don’t want to have sex couple”, in other words, the non-penetrative sex

MUTUAL MASTURBATION- Involves two or more people who sexually stimulate each other, usually with the hands. It can be practised by people of any sexual orientation and can be part of other sexual activity. It may be used as foreplay or as an alternative to sexual penetration. When used as an alternative to penile-vaginal penetration, the goal may be to preserve virginity or to avoid the risk of pregnancy

Mutual masturbation can be practised in pairs or groups with or without touching another person for example:

    1. Non-contact Mutual Masturbation – Two people masturbating in the presence of each other but not touching each other.

    2. Contact Mutual Masturbation – One person touching another person to masturbate. The other person may do the same during or after.

    3. Non-contact Group – More than two people masturbating in the presence of each other in a group but not touching each other.

   4. Contact Group – More than two people physically touching each other to masturbate as a group.

   5. Mutual Masturbation Foreplay – The manual stimulation of each other’s genitals, where the session eventually leads to sexual intercourse


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